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Wednesday, March 24, 2021

Filipinos Beaten, Slashed, Shot, Assaulted, Yelled At, and Killed in the USA

Lately in the USA there has allegedly been an uptick in crimes against people of Asian descent since the COVID-19 pandemic began in March 2020. Talking heads will tell you this is all due to Donald Trump referring to the Chinese-in-origin, it literally came from Wuhan, virus as the China virus. They will also tell you these attacks are deeply rooted in White supremacy. Filipinos have not been spared by this violence. But do the attacks have anything to do with Donald Trump and the China virus or White supremacy?

The first notable attack was back in February on the NYC subway.

https://news.yahoo.com/mans-face-slashed-nyc-subway-203314003.html

A 61-year-old man was on his way to work on the L subway train when he got into a dispute with another man and was slashed across the face on Wednesday morning. What happened: Noel Quintana claimed the man was kicking his backpack during the commute, according to ABC7. When Quintana asked him to stop, the man attacked him and ran away when the train stopped at First Avenue and 14th Street.

A series of subway incidents: As the New York Post reports, this incident is the latest in a series of subway crime problems. Speaking to ABC7, Mayor Bill de Blasio, however, dismissed the crime problem.

This is a very cut and dry case. It involves no Donald Trump, no China virus, and no White supremacy. The next case is equally open and shut and involves an elderly Filipino in Arizona.

https://coconuts.co/manila/news/hate-crime-alleged-killer-of-elderly-filipino-arrested-by-arizona-police/

The suspect behind the killing of a 74-year-old Filipino in Phoenix, Arizona has been arrested, the police announced last week.

Filipino Juanito Falcon was attacked by the suspect, Marcus Williams, near 17th Avenue and Bethany Home Road, the Phoenix police said in a tweet. Falcon died two days later from the injuries. The police said it was still unclear why Williams attacked the elderly Filipino.

Williams allegedly punched Falcon in the face, which caused the latter to fall and hit his head. Williams fled but witnesses were able to identify his car before he sped away. Falcon was also able to tell the police the last two numbers of the vehicle’s license plate. Williams was found about three miles from the crime scene with his girlfriend; both of them refused to answer the cops’ questions.

Advocates say that the attacks against Asian-Americans were reminiscent of “yellow peril,” a racist ideology that arose in the 19th century that sees Asians as a threat to the Western world. Such crimes are allegedly linked to the spread of the coronavirus, which was first discovered in Wuhan, China in late 2019.

Again there is no link to the China virus, Donald Trump, or White supremacy. The attack was random and the attacker was black.

The next two cases are just like this one in that the victims were both randomly punched. The difference is that the authorities decided not to release mugshots of the suspects. In the case of the San Fransisco Police Department they decided to stop releasing mugshots in 2020 "as part of an effort to stop perpetuating racial stereotypes." That means we will never see the face of Jorge Devis-Milton who randomly punched Danny Yu Chang, a Chinese Filipino.

https://www.sfchronicle.com/crime/article/Nothing-is-safe-here-in-California-16034222.php#photo-20755789

Danny Yu Chang was walking through San Francisco’s Financial District, clutching a packaged lunch from Trader Joe’s, when an assailant struck him from behind. 

The blows were swift and brutal, Yu Chang recalled Wednesday afternoon, two days after a man knocked him unconscious at Market and Montgomery streets. 

Former President Donald Trump’s inflammatory racial rhetoric about the coronavirus had helped create a toxic undertow, which has frequently bubbled to the surface as economic pressures and bitter emotions set in. A report released Tuesday by the national coalition Stop AAPI Hate documented 3,795 anti-Asian hate incidents from the beginning of the pandemic through Feb. 28. Of those, 1,691 took place in California. 

A day after the attack, Yu Chang set up a page on the crowdfunding platform GoFundMe, asking supporters to help raise money so he and his wife can move out of state. That evening, police announced the arrest of 32-year-old Jorge Devis-Milton in connection with the battery of Yu Chang and a stabbing half an hour earlier, of a 64-year-old white man at the 16th Street Mission BART Station.

He is now among dozens of victims of violence who have become symbols of a national reckoning over rising hate and despicable crimes of opportunity — both of which have hit the Bay Area’s Asian American communities.

According to the San Fransisco Chronicle this man is not merely the victim of a crime but one of dozens who are now symbols of a nation reckoning over hate crimes against Asian Americans. Could anything be more ridiculous? That the media names the race of Jorge's stabbing victim but not his own race is a rather big clue to what he looks like. How likely is it a White man is named Jorge? The fact is it's not racism. It's regular criminality perpetrated by the criminals who populate the Bay Area. San Fransisco is a city covered in human feces, used needles, and homeless peopleBurglary is up by 57%!! The city has major problems which the local government refuses to address properly. Instead they'd rather conceal mugshots of criminals.

Let's jump down to San Diego where an elderly Filipino woman known only as Lola was punched while riding the trolley.

https://www.10news.com/news/local-news/elderly-filipino-woman-attacked-on-san-diego-trolley-shares-her-story

An elderly Filipino woman who was attacked on the trolley last month shared her story with ABC 10News.

She is being identified only as Lola, a word that means grandmother in the Philippines. She said the attack last month still haunts her.

Through a translator, she said in Tagalog that she still cries when she recalls the incident. Lola said she had just visited a friend and was riding the trolley from Encanto to Downtown San Diego. She thought a fellow passenger was going to transfer trolleys, but instead she became the victim of an unprovoked attack.

“He punched me,” Lola said. “It’s very hard and then I cried… please, please help me!”

Lola said the man tried to grab her. Witnesses helped her until police arrived. She told ABC 10News she is thankful to God she’s still alive.

Police arrested James Winslow in connection with the attack. A police spokesperson said he faces assault with a deadly weapon with an elder abuse enhancement.

The trolley incident was not deemed a hate crime. However, attacks on elderly Asian Americans have been caught on video throughout the country.

After telling the story the reporter notes that this incident is not a hate crime but then adds an "However!" The truth is simply not good enough. The truth is that these two Filipinos who were punched randomly were both likely victims of the knockout game

One does not have to wonder what the agenda of the American media is if they pay close attention. In Vallejo, which is just north of San Fransisco, on February 16th Filipino Marc Quidt was injured when his store was robbed. Rather than report it as a straight crime story reporter Dion Lim, herself of Asian descent,  attempted to find a racial motive.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CLajtq0McWJ/

this video is horrifying and I’ll explain why I am posting it. It shows an armed robbery of an Asian American couple’s store last night.

The reason why I mention they are Asian is that they have seen all of the coverage of attacks on the API community and while we don’t know if they were targeted because they’re Asian...one can’t help but think it could be the reason these days.

How ridiculous! Crime is up in the area, the store has been robbed before, the video shows the usual suspects in these cases, and it is not the white man. Yet this lady just has to stoke fears about anti-Asian violence even as she admits she has no idea if the store was targets because it is owned by Asians! Even the San Fransisco Chronicle wants to tar this common place robbery as a targeted hate crime.

San Jose is not all that far from San Fransisco. On March 10th a Filipina, who only wants to be known as Tiffany, was talking on the phone with her boyfriend when she was suddenly assaulted while waiting for the train.

https://usa.inquirer.net/65586/suspect-nabbed-in-attack-on-fil-am-woman-in-san-jose-train-station

Police arrested a 32-year-old suspect who faces hate crime charges for attacking a Filipino American woman in a Caltrain station in San Jose on Wednesday morning, March 10.

The Santa Clara County District Attorney’s Office said on Friday that Johan Strydom, 32, will be charged with “assault with force likely to cause great bodily injury” and “assault with an intent to commit rape and assault” with felony hate crime enhancements. 

The Filipina, a 26-year-old medical worker who requested to be identified only as Tiffany, took the Caltrain at San Jose’s Diridon Station on Wednesday at around 6:30 a.m. on her way to work in Palo Alto, according to KTVU.

Man, identified as Strydom, suddenly grabbed Tiffany neck from behind, reportedly pulling her hair back and cursing at her for her Asian ethnicity.

Tiffany began screaming when Strydom allegedly forced her to the ground and started tossing her back and forth. “He was saying f-u, f-u Asian, this is completely bull,” she said. “All while he was keeping me on the ground with his grip on my hair.”

Bystanders came to her rescue and yelled at the suspect to stop the assault. He tried to run away from the scene. Tiffany was not injured physically, Victoria O’Brien, Caltrain Deputy Director of Safety and Security, told KTVU.

Truly a horrifying ordeal committed by a white man. But does his whiteness have anything to do with it? How about Trump or the Wu-flu? According to his lawyer, "Strydom is allegedly suffering from a mental illness that is intensified by homelessness." Just like San Fransisco, San Jose has a homeless problem that has spiraled out of all proportion. That means more crime.

They’ve reported gun violence, had cars stolen and watched in outrage for months as trash piles up and homeless encampments grow around them. 

Business and property owners in downtown San Jose are demanding the city take action to end vandalism, theft and increasing illegal camping they say is destroying their livelihood.

And they are not mincing words — one man even calling homeless people parasites. 

“We will soon see a hero before us to rid the world of these parasites who infect and destroy life and property,” Arturo Lionetti, plant manager at Airgas, wrote in an email to Councilmember Raul Peralez. 

The email was part of an email thread obtained by San José Spotlight to Peralez from five business owners along Coleman Avenue — that started in 2019 — complaining about the problems. The business owners claim the city has turned a blind eye.

“If the city can’t provide the basics — if I have to continue to shoulder the costs to repair the ongoing, almost nightly, acts of vandalism and destruction to me and my customers’ property — I will be out of business by June,” said Rose Garden Auto Care owner George Fota in a Dec. 17 email. 

This is a very old problem. There is even a website, sanjosehomeless.org, with the last update being 2015. According to one website, policyadvice.net, as of February 2021 in the USA 48% of homeless people are white, 61% of them are male, and 25% are mentally ill. It appears Johan Strydom being a mentally ill, white, homeless man is typical of what one would expect to encounter among the homeless. "Straight out of central casting," as they would say. Would anyone expect a mentally ill, homeless man to act like a functioning member of society? Just Google "homeless man attacks" and you will be greeted with plenty of news stories of mentally ill homeless men attacking people. Tiffany was not only the victim of Johan Strydom but also of a government which had been warned of this problem over the years and had done nothing to prevent it from happening. She won't be the last victim of an uncaring San Jose government.

GMA recently published a story with the following provocative title, "Filipino man verbally harassed in another New York subway incident.Alex P. Vidal, the Filipino man in question, was yelled at by a man on the NYC subway who was on a tirade against the Chinese. Instead of leaving like all the rest of the passengers this man stayed seated and began filming. GMA attempts to portray this as a hate crime yet offers no details when this happened and do not provide a link to the film. It is on Alex P. Vidal's blog. It happened at 11a.m. on March 12th.

https://alexpvidal.wordpress.com/2021/03/14/angry-man-inside-a-brooklyn-bound-subway-train-yells-at-me-and-calls-me-a-chinese-amid-upsurge-of-violence-against-asian-americans/

Here is the full text of that 52 second video:

You got the Yemenis, the Saudi Arabians and all these different people so I ask myself, well, why would these people not associate? Why would these people stay away from each other? There must have been a reason for that. Another thing I had to ask is what are the Chinese, once again, doing with the Muslims locked up in their country?  Why do the good Chinese have Muslims locked up in their country? For no reason other than being Muslim, could you answer that? Because you seem to be so ethical and you seem to be such a good Buddhist. For we know that Buddhism is not a Chinese religion, Buddhism is an Indian religion. Why are you going around touting yourself as a good Buddhist person? Why are you telling people Asian's don't marry outside of their race when Asians do marry outside their race? Do you mean you don't marry black people outside of your race? When the highest rate of intermarriage is between White males and Asian women. 

Actually this is not the full text because while this man is spouting off Alex P. Vidal keeps turning the camera toward himself and saying he is alone and being harassed. When this man asks him, "Why do the good Chinese have Muslims locked up in their country?" Alex points the camera at himself and says, "He say I am a Chinese." Alex must not understand English because that is not what the man said at all. He simply asked a question about why the Chinese are rounding up the Uighers and placing them into camps. From the sound of it I would imagine that man is either a member of or familiar with The Five-Percent Nation or some other sect of the Nation of Islam. 

For his blogpost dated March 18th Alex P. Vidal insensitively, disgracefully, and disingenuously dared  to compare his being shouted at by a crazy man, who he could have evaded like everyone else, to spa workers who were shot dead in Atlanta by a guy with a sex addiction and to the first man in this article, Noel Quintana, who was sliced across the face.

I STILL consider myself “luckier” compared to those members of Asian community murdered in Atlanta on March 17 in another wave of hate crime perpetrated against Asian Americans amid the coronavirus disease 2019 (Covid-19) pandemic.


The massacre in Atlanta occurred five days after a lunatic man verbally abused me on F train bound for the Coney Island in Brooklyn, New York City at 11 am on March 12 for being “a Chinese.”


The bloody carnage in Atlanta happened almost a month after another Filipino-American, Noel Quintana, 61, was slashed across the face from cheek to cheek inside the L subway train while on his way to his job in Manhattan. 

It’s not safe to be an Asian nowadays while there is still a pandemic. We still need to be extra careful in public and shouldn’t lower our guards down. 

Quintana, who had been in a confrontation with another man while the two were riding on the train, said the emotionally disturbed man was kicking his backpack and when he asked him to stop, the suspect attacked him and fled when the train stopped at First Avenue and 14th Street. 

Unlike Quintana, I wasn’t harmed but was a little bit frightened visibly.


I didn’t react violently and, thank God, I managed to “escape” unscathed physically.


https://alexpvidal.wordpress.com/2021/03/18/im-luckier-than-those-killed/

Is this "independent journalist" unaware that the Atlanta shooting was not motivated by hatred towards Asians or the pandemic? The shooter was a frequent customer of those spas. He had a sex addiction he could not overcome and in his frustration he shot those people. The REAL STORY there concerning crime and violence against Asians is that those spas were functioning as brothels. All across the USA there are Asians who have been trafficked by other Asians, particularly Chinese and Koreans, to work at such places. Those people are real victims and they remain invisible to society at large. The New York Times did a write up about these places in 2019.

"Thank God I managed to escape??" Alex P. Vidal could have escaped easily along with everyone else when they heard the man coming. Instead he chose to play the victim and not just remain seated in fear but record the man as he spit some knowledge and intersperse it with his own commentary about, "I am alone and being harassed." Just look at the fear in Alex P. Vidal's eyes as he bravely records the moment of his victimhood.


What a joke. What else could we expect from a man who admits that he falls asleep on the subway even though he knows he should not due to safety precautions? 

AS an Asian, I am guilty of being the No. 1 violator of the unwritten rule among Asian Americans in the United States, particularly in New York City nowadays: “Don’t sleep while inside a subway train.” 

Mea culpa, I fell asleep for a few minutes on my way to Brooklyn morning on Friday, February 26. it’s a good thing I was safe. 

And, oops, I did it again on my way back to Queens past noontime. 

We have been supposedly warned to be careful while in public, especially inside the bus and the subway train now that hate crimes involving Asian Americans have soared in these past weeks. 

I travel from Queens to Brooklyn vice versa via subway train four times a week and my travel time normally takes one hour and 15 minutes from 90th Station in Queens to Avenue I going Coney Island in Brooklyn. 

After 10 to 15 minutes of each travel, I usually fall asleep as most passengers do. I wake up about five stations before my final stop. 

Not anymore since three weeks ago after a 61-year-old Filipino passenger Noel Quintana, who looked like Chinese like me, received almost 100 stitches after he was slashed across the face by another passenger on the New York City subway on February 3. 

Most of us have been alerted that Quintana’s case could be linked to the upsurge of hate crimes perpetrated recently against mostly Chinese nationals referred to as “Asian Americans” in the media.

https://alexpvidal.wordpress.com/2021/03/11/oops-i-did-it-again/

Maybe he should just pack it in and return to Iloilo.

Let's look an one more story of a Filipino who was recently killed in the USA. The difference between him and all the rest is he died at the hands, or rather the knees, of the police.

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/25/us/angelo-quinto-death-police-kneel.html

When Maria Quinto-Collins started filming her son at her home in Antioch, Calif., on Dec. 23, he was already on the floor, unresponsive. 

In the footage, a pair of officers with the Antioch Police Department can be seen rolling the son, Angelo Quinto, from his stomach onto his side. Ms. Quinto-Collins can be heard asking, repeatedly, “What happened?” 

Mr. Quinto, 30, never regained consciousness; he died three days later. Last week, his family filed a wrongful-death claim against the city. It said that the two officers, who had responded to a call from Mr. Quinto’s sister, knelt on Mr. Quinto’s back for nearly five minutes to subdue him and that he had “died as a direct consequence of the unreasonable force used against him.” 

John Burris, a lawyer for Mr. Quinto’s family, said Wednesday that Mr. Quinto’s mother and sister were traumatized and grieving and that they questioned the decision to invite the police to their home. “They thought that they were calling the police for help,” Mr. Burris said. 

He added that the family was awaiting the results of an autopsy from an independent medical examiner. “We feel pretty strongly that this is an asphyxiation case,” he said. 

According to the wrongful-death claim, Mr. Quinto sometimes struggled with anxiety and depression, and he appeared to be experiencing paranoia on the night of Dec. 23. His sister, Isabella Collins, called the police, expressing fear to the dispatcher. 

When the officers arrived, Ms. Quinto-Collins had been holding her son in her arms to calm him down, the claim said. The officers pulled him away, and Mr. Quinto asked them not to kill him, according to the claim. 

Then, the claim said, he was held on the floor of his mother’s bedroom and handcuffed while the officers — first one, then the other — placed their lower legs against his neck to press him down. Smudges of blood appeared beneath Mr. Quinto’s face.

“At no time while being restrained did Mr. Quinto resist physically or verbally,” the claim said. “After being restrained for almost five minutes, Mr. Quinto became lifeless.”

On December 23rd Angelo Quinto gave his mother and sister a hug that was too hard. Another story says:

The legal claim stems from a chaotic encounter at the family’s home on Crestwood Drive, shortly after 11 p.m. on Dec. 23. Quinto, who family members say suffered from anxiety, grabbed his mother and sister and began hugging them tightly around their heads and shoulders. 

“He was trying to keep us close, and it really freaked us out,” Quinto’s sister, Isabella “Bella” Collins, recalled in an interview Wednesday.

Collins managed to extricate herself and called police, saying her brother was acting erratically and that she feared he might hurt her mother.

When officers arrived, they found Maria Cassandra Quinto-Collins seated on the floor of her bedroom and embracing her son, according to a report from private investigator Juan Sigler, which is based on interviews with the mother and daughter. 

Police took Quinto from his mother, turned him on his stomach and handcuffed him. His mother said Quinto pleaded for his life when officers pinned him down, with one officer holding his legs while the other placed a knee on his neck.

In the cellphone video, which doesn’t capture the initial encounter, Quinto appears unresponsive as police flip him over onto his left side, revealing blood smeared on his mouth and a blood stain on the floor. Photos obtained by the Chronicle show a pool of blood near his body

There are parallels being drawn between this case and George Floyd but they are only superficial. Whereas George Floyd had 20 minutes to comply with the cops before they subdued him with a knee to the neck Angleo Qunito was thrown on the ground and subdued immediately. George Floyd had a lethal dose of fentanyl and other drugs in his system but this man apparently was sober. Angelo also had a pool of blood near his body and his mouth was smeared with blood which indicates something traumatic happened unlike in Floyd's case where there was no blood. He died three days later but the family thinks it is a case of asphyxiation. If he died three days later and not on the spot that would seem to rule out asphyxiation. It is a tragic story and we will likely be hearing more about it especially if the body cam footage is released.

Here you have 8 stories of Filipinos in America. 6 of them were victims of common crimes that the media wants to fan into anti-Asian hate hysteria. The 7th man, Alex P. Vidal, seems to want to be a victim as he could have left but did not. In either case he was not the victim of a crime but willingly sat down and listened to a man pontificate. The 8th man, Angelo Quinto, appears to be the victim of police overreaction. He would not be the first mentally ill person who has died in police custody becasue the police did not know how to handle such a situation properly. Linden Cameron was a 13 year old boy with autism who was killed by the police in 2020.

What we can learn from all this is that Filipinos in America are the victims of crime as much as anyone else. Plenty of white people have been sucker punched by a random stranger in the knockout game. Plenty of white people have been shot by or had to shoot at would be robbers. And plenty of white people have died at the hands of the police. It's nothing new for any group of people in the USA to be victims of crime or of the police. The violence committed against these Filipinos has nothing to do with Donald Trump, the Wuhan virus, or white supremacy.


Koreans protecting their business from looters during the 1992 L.A. riots

What's really needed is to take a good hard look at who the perpetrators of these crimes really are and avoid them as much as possible. We should rely on statistically relevant data and not base our conclusions on outliers. We should also rid ourselves of the fallacious notion that "not all C's are B's" and realize that, statistically, the majority of C's are indeed B's. Without that solid dose of reality the problem will continue and whole groups of people and ideologies which have nothing to do with crimes committed against Filipinos or any other group will continue to be falsely blamed. Creating scapegoats won't make the Filipino community in the USA any safer.

Wednesday, July 29, 2020

A Momma Abroad: My Sons Are Filipinos Because Life in the Philippines Is All They Know

I have written several blog posts about what it means to be Filipino-American. How can one born in a foreign land to a Filipino parent still claim to be a Filipino when they know nothing of the Philippines? While there are many Fil-Ams because of the OFW program/problem there are not many Am-Fils. This rarity makes the case of Amber Folkman's three boys Aaker Nuke, Oz Mounce, and Wells Finn (yes those are their actual names) rather interesting and unique.
https://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parenting/real-parenting/i-want-to-raise-my-boys-knowing-filipino-values-a1746-20180329
I was raised in a small town in Northern California in the valley of two mountains. We lived an hour away from a mall and 30 minutes from our dentist. I never imagined that I would raise my boys across the world in Manila, one of the world's most densely populated cities in South East Asia surrounded by skyscrapers and high rises. 
I cannot imagine a more opposite experience than the one I had. But that is part of the magic of living abroad. 
Besides having an endless summer, the best mangoes in the world and the most fun modes of transportation, the Philippines is where my boys have learned valuable life lessons that I hope will guide them through the rest of their lives. We predominantly have an American culture in our home, but outside we embrace everything that is Filipino.
In the headline Amber declares her boys are Filipinos because life in the Philippines is all they know but in the article she says they have an American culture in their home. What else could they have? Mom and dad are Americans and they are going to impart American values to their offspring because that is all they know. It's only natural. But if she is imparting American values and culture to her sons how can they be Filipinos? Amber goes on to say that outside the home they embrace everything that is Filipino. 

Going through her blog the "everything that is Filipino" boils down to food apparently. Even in this article she has much to say about food. First she mentions the best mangoes in the world. Next she gets excited that her little boys prefer to eat with their hands just like real Pinoys.
Never would have I ever thought my sons' preferred meals would be galunggong fried to a crisp with a heaping pile of rice, AND eating it with their hands, the Pinoy way! I never imagined that the Kuya of our family could switch his accent like a light switch depending on who he was communicating with (Filipino vs. non-Filipino). 
Of course she never would have thought her boys would not be civilized enough to use forks and spoons. Who would want to think something so sad? She also mentions the hilarious fact that one of her boys switches his accent when he talks with Filipinos. Is learning to dumb down your speech depending on who you talk to one of those valuable life lessons that will guide them through the rest of their lives that her boys are learning in the Philippines? Remember how Hilary Clinton switched her accent in front of various audiences? Perhaps that skill will combine handy if her boys become politicians.

The end of this article really sums up how she views her boys living in the Philippines and her whole philosophy about culture and nations.
One of my most tender memories is my bunso learning his body parts in Filipino before English. These lessons have taught us all that there is no one "right" way to live. 
May my three Pinoy boys always remember that they are world citizens and life is much bigger than one country and one culture. 
Since my boys were born and raised in the Philippines (minus one year for my eldest son), I have declared them Fil-Am. We may not have the passport to prove it, but they have the heart of the Filipino, and they are better for it.
No right way to live, they are world citizens, they have the heart of the Filipino and are better for it. All of that screams California liberal but apparently Amber is a Mormon. That does not mean she can't be a liberal but what it does mean is she has no idea what it is to be a Filipino. Filipinos are quite patriotic and have a lot of pride in their ethnicity. They may be scattered all over the world but they never assimilate into the local culture. Instead they bring their culture with them and send their money back to the Philippines where they hope to eventually retire after earning lots of money abroad. Filipinos are not cosmopolitans. Only silly white women like Amber are and after falling in love with a foreign culture and telling everyone back home, "We are all the same," they often end up dead.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pippa_Bacca
How can her boys have the heart of a Filipino when she admits they have an American culture inside the home? Home is where the heart is, right? Incidentally you can take a tour of her house at the following article:


https://www.chuzailiving.com/american-expat-home-philippines-amber-folkman/
Amber's house is immaculate. It is straight out of Good Housekeeping. In fact her house was featured in Real Living and she had an article published in Good Housekeeping.

https://amommabroad.com/blog/2016/07/25/magazine-feature-in-real-living-i-have-no-idea-what-im-doing
When Shine of Real Living mentioned some months ago that our house might be up for a feature I was over the moon. Real Living was THE only publication I bought regularly for the last couple of years. (Yummy and Good Housekeeping are also winners! I actually have a short recipe in Yummy's July issue and an article in Good Housekeepings' August issue.) Summit Media produces such quality material. It took a few months and some more nesting on my end but eventually it worked out. To be honest, I was proud of myself that I had created a home out of love, creativity and frugality and that a magazine, one I respected, thought our home was up to par. It felt like my motherhood was being recognized.
The only bad thing about this tour of her home is that we don't get to see the bathroom. We do see that the boys bathroom is Batman themed but we don't see the commode. Is there toilet paper in all the bathrooms? American culture after all. But then again she did write a "love letter" to the tabo.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B9zCvuZpVrV/
“Dear Tabo, I am sorry I had an aversion to you all these years. When I saw you and judged you as unsanitary. After your support in thoroughly cleaning my toddler and his extremely soggy swimsuit full of [poop] I owe you the sincerest apology and deepest gratitude. Now, I would like to continue our relationship if you’ll have me, Truly yours, an ignorant Momma Abroad. You tube: how to use a tabo. Fascinating!” -@amommabroad
There is quite a lot I could say about this lady and her assertion that her American children are Filipinos. As I noted they do pose an interesting case. The boys have grown up in the Philippines and the Philippines is all they know. So they are Filipinos right? Wrong!


These boys do not face the same trials as Filipinos do. Likely they live in a wealthy, gated community. They eat Filipino food but imbibe American values at home. Eating and washing your butt with your hands does not make one a Filipino. It just makes you gross.

Looking at her blog one does not see the Philippines in all its grit and gory. What one sees is the whitewashed fantasy of an American momma trying to build a magazine perfect life for herself and her children. One that is safe and wholly American but with tinges of the most superficial aspects of Filipinoness. What does make one a Filipino or an American? Her boys are going to have to face that existential crisis when they come of age.

This family is the perfect WHITE family. And that is very problematic because right now those boys are being sheltered from the cultural shift which is happening in America namely the demonizing white people as the cancer of the world as Susan Sontag disgustingly phrased it long ago. When they go back to America they will be blindsided at all the hate directed towards them. They will say we grew up in the Philippines, we aren't racist and they will not understand why no one will care. And with good reason! Because they are growing up rich and sheltered in the Philippines. That is what they call white privilege. The privilege to have a dad with a good paying job where you live in a third world nation and can live like kings because the peso is so devalued. The privilege where you can eat with your hands while squatting and pretend you are a native.

Aaker Nuke, Oz Mounce, and Wells Finn are not Filipinos. This lady is delusional. She has been demoralized by the melting-pot relativism of mainstream America. How could any foreigner live in this country and come to the conclusion, "we are all the same??" Cockfighting, littering. trash burning, exploiting relatives, exploiting those with whom you are tasked to protect and serve, an inability to plan for the future, the list goes on. Filipino culture is not like American culture and vice versa. That is because the internal workings of the Filipino mind are not at all like those of anyone else's. We see that evident in the society and culture Filipinos have built in this nation. There is a biological aspect to being Filipino that Amber's white children will NEVER have. They do not have a Filipino brain, will never think like Filipinos, and thus they will never be Filipinos. To ignore human biodiversity is to remain forever ignorant why societies and cultures differ among people groups.

What does this mean anyway??
"We predominantly have an American culture in our home."
What is the American culture in her home that those boys are being raised in?  Does daddy read the Constitution at night like a bed time story? Does momma extol the virtues of not burning garbage? Do her boys know anything about the United States which would make them good citizens? She should go to Booksale, look for a copy of the Federalist Papers (I have seen copies there) and read it to her sons. Or maybe print out a PDF, go to Recto, and have it bound. She should pay special attention to Federalist no. 2!
With equal pleasure I have as often taken notice that Providence has been pleased to give this one connected country to one united people--a people descended from the same ancestors, speaking the same language, professing the same religion, attached to the same principles of government, very similar in their manners and customs, and who, by their joint counsels, arms, and efforts, fighting side by side throughout a long and bloody war, have nobly established general liberty and independence. 
https://avalon.law.yale.edu/18th_century/fed02.asp
That little paragraph speaks volumes about what real American culture is and from whence it originates. This lady's idea of what it means to be Filipino is incredibly shallow.

https://amommabroad.com/blog/2016/08/04/becoming-filipino
While on this search for happiness I have found that the more I embrace the culture the deeper my roots sink and the more fulfilled I am. Although I am clearly not, part of me feels Filipino. It is a gift this country and culture have given to me, embracing me wholeheartedly. It might sound silly but a part of my heart will forever belong to The Pilipinas. So I dedicate this post to those who are Filipino or are on this journey to becoming Filipino. I will follow Kyle's lead of Becoming Filipino for this post. It may be kind of corny but whatever, I'm going for it. 
You may becoming Filipino if you... 
Are a pandesal addict. 
Are a suman, turon or hot tsokolat addict. 
Consume multiple varieties of bananas a day. :) 
Can make your own coconut milk. Bonus: eat it while doing the Pilipino squat.  
Eat a whole fish. Except the eyes. I just can't do that yet. My American side keeps telling me no. 
Your kid uses a tabo like a boss. 
Get excited when this very sanitary and nice toilet greets you on your road trip. You may becoming Filipino if you have to remind yourself to flush the toilet paper when you visit America instead of throw it in the rubbish bin.
She says this list is just for a little corny fun but I don't buy it. This lady is serious. She loves the Philippines and she loves the Philippines for these very reasons which have mostly to do with food! Amber really loves to eat. So here she is dressed in Pinoy-face stuffing her maw with pandesal, mangoes, bananas, and rice saying, "Look ma! I'm a Filipina and my boys are Filipinos toooooooo!" 

But an interesting thought occurs. Barack Obama grew up in Indonesia, not far from here, and eventually became the President of the USA. What if Aaker Nuke, with his Filipino heart, grew up to become President of the USA? Who would want a man with the heart of a Filipino to be President of the USA? 

Thursday, October 31, 2019

Filipino Actress Mariel Rodriguez to Give Birth in the United States

Here we go again. Another Fil-Am identity crisis.  But this time it's a little different. Usually the case is a person born in the USA to Filipino parents who has only lived in the USA, knows nothing but the USA, yet eats lumpia and thinks he is a Filipino. That scenario is pure delusion. This case is the reverse. Actually it's rather unique. A Filipino actress with American citizenship is flying to the USA to give birth.

https://entertainment.inquirer.net/345074/mariel-rodriguez-flies-to-us-before-giving-birth-to-baby-no-2
Mariel Rodriguez is on her way to the United States to give birth to her second child with Robin Padilla. 

The TV host, who is an American citizen, was accompanied by her 2-year-old daughter, Isabella. Padilla sent off his wife and daughter in the airport before their trip, as seen in Rodriguez’s picture on Instagram yesterday, Sept. 12. 

“Here we are embarking on another journey…. making sacrifices and doing what’s best for our children,” Rodriguez said. “Thank you for our trip babe @robinhoodpadilla we miss you already!!! When we see you next time we will be with Gabriela.” 

As to why Rodriguez still wants to have baby No. 2 in the US, she said in an interview with the Philippine Star last August: “I want to be able to give my baby the same attention I gave Isabella when I gave birth to her… No one will bother us, no one will visit us. You know what I mean? So I want  to be able to give her that.” 

With Rodriguez giving birth in the States, her kids would be Americans too. Under that country’s constitution, children can become American citizens if they are born in the United States or one of its territories. A child born to a US citizen, even if the birth is in another country, can still acquire citizenship, athough the process is more complex. 
It should be obvious why she is giving birth in the USA and not in the Philippines. Because she wants her children to be American citizens and if she gave birth here the process to get them American citizenship is "more complex." Plenty of folks have taken to social media to give her a hard time about this decision. Her husband Robin did not take kindly to that.

https://entertainment.inquirer.net/346969/robin-padilla-defends-mariel-rodriguez-having-baby-in-us
Robin Padilla justified his and Mariel Rodriguez’s decision to have the TV host give birth to their second child, Gabriela, in the United States. 

Many of her fans wished her well, but one Instagram user, a certain @georg_supreme, did not seem to be in favor of Rodriguez’s giving birth in the US. 

The netizen, addressing US President Donald Trump’s Instagram account (@realdonaldtrump), pointed out that Rodriguez only goes to the US to give birth. He/she added that it made Rodriguez a “birther,” and that it was not allowed. 

After being asked by another Instagram user about what was wrong in giving birth in the US, the netizen chose to “research” about the celebrity couple. He/she then asked why would Rodriguez leave the Philippines to give birth if Padilla prided himself on being nationalistic. The said comments have since been deleted.  

In response, Padilla said, “Ang pagiging [Filipino-American] ay hindi pagtataksil sa Inangbayan (Being Filipino-American is not betraying the motherland).” 

He then claimed that he and his wife are more American than those who speak English and live in the US, after pointing out that Rodriguez is an American citizen, and stating that he bears some Native American blood. 

Padilla also said he and his wife were more Filipino than anyone else, citing that since his grandparents are the heroine Gabriela Silang and one Captain Pablo of Nueva Ecija, they bear great love for the Philippines (“lumalangoy na kami sa pag ibig sa bayan na ito”).
Mariel's husband's response is absolutely ridiculous. He says they are both more American and more Filipino than anyone else and cites as proof that he has a drop or two of native American blood. But he does not say what tribe. Most people who claim native American ancestry will at least give a tribe name. I bet Robin is lying.

As an American citizen it certainly is Mariel's right to go to the USA and give birth. It's also her right to go to the USA and get a job in Hollywood and never return to the Philippines. Instead she will return with her new child in tow.

According to the limited biography available online she was raised in Parañaque by her maternal grandparents after her parents split which means her father is probably an American and she was likely born in the USA and then brought back here after her parents divorced. There is no indication that she ever spent any of her formative years in the USA. As such she is a Filipino through and through.

You certainly can't fault her for wanting her children to have a golden ticket to the USA. If things get hairy here they can just get on a plane and go with no problems. If they do well in school they can apply for universities in the USA. Maybe then can even land a high paying job. Who knows?

But does Mariel know that as an American citizen she must pay taxes to the IRS? Does she know that as American citizens her children will be shouldered with that same burden as well and that ignorance of the law is no excuse? That means a double tax burden to the Philippines and the USA. Who wants that?

Then there is the cultural mess.  Her children will grow up as Filipinos. They will have Filipino cultural mores and they will speak English with a Filipino accent. Everything they will know, all they will know, is the Philippines. But they will also legally be Americans.

As I wrote above this is a very unique situation. Many Chinese women fly to California to give birth so their children will have American citizenship. Many illegal aliens make their way to the USA to give birth in the hopes that they will grow up and help them attain citizenship. That is the anchor baby problem. Here is a situation that is not criminal at all. Mariel is an American citizen and she can come and go as she pleases even if that means to give birth.

But her children will pay the cultural price as they will be duped into believing that having an American passport makes them Americans.